MSPI Mama on facebook has a great list. Go to the "discussion" icon on the left, then to "restaurants"
Red Rodin emailed me their current allergy menu (14 pages!) but it changes monthly. They said the restaurant can print you one when you come in to eat.
Zest Bakery - San Carlos - www.zestbakery.com
BJ's Pizza - I was told they also have an allergy menu upon request